Take responsibility for everything that happens to you.
Everything. Everything you see, or even everything you hear on the news.
Seems a little unfair?
Maybe. But Once you've taken responsibility for everything, you've also admitted you have the power to change everything.
So unfair at first, but ultimately empowering.
And if you're ranting about how you're life is different, and its unreasonable that I don't understand your special reason why you can't take responsibility for something someone is doing to you?
Well, that's your problem. And your responsibility to do something about.
I've got my own reality to look after.